When you are facing hard times, and you have to make decisions, it is often hard to see which direction to take.
No matter what decision you make, what you need to remember is that your experiences now are helping your growth. It is probably not comfortable to decide which way to go, because you are going through a major time of change in your life. You all go through such major changes, and what you do, and the shifts in your consciousness that you embrace, make you the people that you become.
No change is easy. Whether you stay in the same place you were, or you choose to leave it, no place will be better than the other, because what you are going trough is an inner conflict. You resolve it within, and the results will show up without.
Working toward your goals is something you always do. But it may not be the goals that you are thinking you should achieve. These goals are what your Soul, your inner Divine Self is leading you to reach. Just trust yourself to make the right decisions. You WILL find the way.